Why do people have to be so annoying

It's human nature to want other people to think well of us. And indeed we are often called upon to put our best foot forward, highlighting our accomplishments and character traits in job interviews and on first dates. So we get a lot of practice in effective self-presentation.

i am not annoying so we can be friends

Answer: It has to do witht the frontol lobe. sometimes being annoying make people feel good about themselves. this is why so many people are annoying or mentally ill