You've been invited to dinner at a nice restaurant on the final night of a tv mini-series you've been watching and thus find yourself confronted with:

The situation shows to have an approach-avoidance conflict. This happens when you are faced with a conflict wherein you go back and forth with your decision and weigh in both the advantages and disadvantages of the situation. In order to come up with a final decision, the person must first reach equilibrium where they feel that the advantages bring them to a better goal.