How do families get children? How many are they allowed? In the giver

Each family unit is made up of a mother and father who do not repopulate together. Young women are assigned to be birth mothers and they are allowed to have three children each ... Each family unit is made up of a mother and father who do not repopulate together.

Families in the Giver are chosen by the committee of Elders and not by the people or love. Children are not born through love. The families are allowed only two children 1 girl and 1 boy.