What is the corect defintion of deliemma

I assume you meant dilemma.

Dilemma: 1. a situation in which a difficult choice has to be made between two or more alternatives, especially equally undesirable ones.

2. a difficult situation or problem.

3. an argument forcing an opponent to choose either of two unfavorable alternatives.

di·lem·ma

/diˈlemə, dīˈlemə/

noun

a situation in which a difficult choice has to be made between two or more alternatives, especially equally undesirable ones.

"the people often face the dilemma of feeding themselves or their cattle"

OR

a difficult situation or problem.

"the insoluble dilemma of adolescence"