How was family life different for Spartans as compared to Athenians

The Spartans focused more on athletics and military training while the Athenians were more intellectual.

Spartan women were allowed to own property and land. They were trained to be strong, and expected to bear strong children. Athenian women mostly stayed in the household and took care of the household chores. The Athenian men did all the politics, voting, etc.