Pablo feels pressure to be a strong, independent provider. his wife, however, complains that he is not sensitive enough. according to pleck, pablo is experiencing:

according to pleck, Pablo is experiencing: Roles strain

Roles strain refers to the stress that caused by not being able to feel someone's expectation to fulfill a certain role.

In this case, the stress come from the different pressure from both his wife who expect Pablo to fulfill the role as a sensitive person and society who expect Pablo to fulfill the role as the provider.