How do you suppose ophelia feels after listening to her brother and her father talk about her love life? could a young woman today face ophelia's particular problems?

Ophelia must have felt disrespected as it was her life they were talking about, and perhaps they were attempting to make decisions for her, decisions that she wouldn't have liked.

Nowadays a young woman is also likely to face Ophelia's problems, with the difference that this woman could feel more encouraged to face her dad and her brother about the situation and ask them for respect and privacy.